No one goes into a relationship with no desires which they hope to achieve.
What a woman wants in a relationship can vary just as much as what a man wants, there are common needs that women seek to fulfill when it comes to building meaningful and fulfilling connections.
The key things women desire are:
- Women want the security that comes with trust and loyalty. Women often want a relationship where they feel secure, and loyalty is a part of that trust.
- Sharing feelings, experiences, and vulnerabilities can deepen relationships. Women value emotional intimacy, wanting to feel truly understood, seen, and heard by their partner.
- Women typically want to be able to talk about any and everything, whether it’s about their relationship or personal issues, and feel like their partner is an active listener!
- Physical affection like holding hands, hugging, or kissing often matters a lot in building a sense of closeness and love. Women desire to feel desired and appreciated both emotionally and physically.
“The number one thing that turns me on is how my body acts like my body is a priceless piece of antique that gives him ecstacy just by looking at me and touching me in the right places.” - Women want to feel respected as equals and valued for who they are, not just for who they are, not just for roles they play in the relationship.
“Respecting each others opinions, individuality and boundaries is crucial” - Feeling secure both emotionally, financially and otherwise is crucial to women. This doesn’t always mean financial wealth, but a sense that the relationship is grounded and steady.
- Women often look for a partner with whom they can share similar values, whether it’s about family, career aspirations, or life priorities.
“Alignment on key goals can help create a long lasting connection.” - Women want partners who can support their ambitions, passions, goals and dreams.
“Mutual support in facing life’s challenges helps strengthen the relationship.” - Women love to be appreciated for who they are and what they do and bring to the table. Showing gratitude and acknowledging their efforts goes a long way.
“Appreciate even the little things they do which men regard normally as their duties like communicating how well you enjoyed the love making, saying nice words after the meal, complimenting their outfits goes a long way.” - For women, spending time together, having fun and building memories are essential.
“Women appreciate men spending quality time with them and when men show that they enjoy their company.”
Each person is unique. The above are generalization, so it’s essential for both partners in a relationship to communicate openly and sincerely about their desires, wants and needs, this will ensure a fulfilling and healthy connection.