Dear wife, as we will be getting married in grand-style once we are ready, I will always give you the affection you deserve, I will work hard to make us so Independent that you wouldn’t rely on anyone to provide for you.

I will be reliable enough in my leadership, have initiative, and will guide and lead the family through the right path. When you are with me, know that you can never be lost in life.

My loyalty to our vows, to you and to the union will be next to none. You will never have to worry about me because my movements, actions and activities will be transparent enough to earn your confidence and reassure you that I can take care of myself and love myself as I will love you and the family. I will strive to be happy and healthy so i can always be there for you and the children.

I will have confidence in you not to betray us or sell us to the hawks. I will entrust you with our properties, monies, and recurring salaries.

With my Knowledge, In connection with my No6, I will actually trust you as my better-half and confident because I know you are better than anyone else.

I will deploy more efforts to know your favourite colours, music, food, places and interests. And no matter how difficult it is, i will be honest and transparent. I will trust you and give you the reasons to also trust me in return.

I will not forget to appreciate the little things you do, where and when necessary. I will be patient enough with your diverse nature and will not get easily angry with you as far as you listen to me, always.

When there’s a challenge or problem, be assured that I will be man enough to stand in the front and diplomatically deal with it to assure your safety, the kids’ safety and the family’s safety. I will be persistent and consistent in dealing with issues effecting us either positively or negatively.

I will never stop until i achieve mine or our dreams for you and the family. My self-discipline will be at its sky level.

I will control myself to avoid gluttony, drunkenness, idleness, lust, and other vices that will put our lives in misery.

You can bank on my Wisdom as I can discern what’s right from wrong. I will try as much as possible to understand you and your body languages as I understand myself. I love kids and I will be compassionate with our children.

For the sake of the family, I will at all times reject evil. I will be upright, fair and just with any matter tabled before me. I will respect you as a woman while raising my leadership staff high. Your own opinions and decisions will be respected either through my silence or direct approval.

I will not lower my sense of sacrifice. I will think about you and the children first before myself. I will give up my own things for you and the kids. Spend my money, time and energy for the whole family, not only for myself. You won’t find any reason to call me a selfish person.

I am no longer too religious as I use to be because I have discovered the truth and liberated myself from their psychological blackmail and emotional slavery; but I have a sound and pure conscience, I am God-fearing and knows the right from wrong. I will bring you and our kids closer to God through direct communication with Him and not by any human proxy.

My hope will never be dented for I will always see a good future with you no matter how difficult a time we find ourselves. You can be assured of my believe in you.

I don’t need to see you all the time to trust you. I will work hard for you and be motivated to work to build a brighter future for our children. Already, i am a kind-hearted man. I will always want to help you and others, and see everyone smile.

I can’t promise you to be gentle always, but I will be careful with your mind, heart, and body. When you commit mistakes, i will rebuke you like I would rebuke myself when I did same.

I don’t like quarrels and petty fights. Don’t argue with me when I am not in a good mood, I wouldn’t want to argue with you either. I cherish my PEACE like life itself, don’t threaten my PEACE, please and I will not threaten yours.

I will give you time and space whenever you need them, remember to reciprocate. I will find the right time to talk and listen to you to resolve issues so both of us can have a good night’s sleep.

Be assured, i will never betray my emotions, not with pride, not with arrogance. I am a strong person mentally, emotionally and spiritually. I will inspire you to change for the better by doing and showing you the change i want you to be.

I will support you in your endeavours to be a better and more successful woman. Our children will be supported in their individual choices in life and I will not force or impose choices on them, as long as they are on the righteous path.

But keep this in mind, any day you start pledging more loyalty and respect to any General Overseer (G.O), Pastor, Prophet, Imam, by any means whatsoever, we will still live together but you have lost me. Your loyalty is to me and our marriage, and not to any G.O, Pastor, Prophet or Imam. My loyalty is to you and our marriage, not to any Mummy G.O. In the absence of your father, I am your Papa.

You are answerable to me and me alone and not to neither my family nor any member of it.

I hope you receive this letter in good fate.